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Bonnie Page
Bonnie Page

DEAR BONNIE: I would love to hear from my Grammie in heaven, but she passed away many years ago when I was very young. Will I be able to recognize her when she comes through? All I remember of her is that she was very sickly and frail. Is that how she will look in Heaven? — Jenny

DEAR JENNY: I’m so sorry that your Grammie was sick and that’s how you remember her. Please know that she is very much happy and healthy now in heaven!

When I am conducting a reading, your loved ones come through to me looking like they did here on Earth. They might appear to be younger in age because they have the ability to go back to when they felt and looked their best. They can appear physically younger and in good health. If your loved one had a leg removed while they were here on Earth, they would show me that they are now whole. If they were sick while they were here, they would show me that they are now healthy and free of any illness.

Unless you would not recognize them as their younger self, a spirit will appear looking as you would know them. Many 90-year-old soldiers will come through, showing me their picture from when they were in the service when they were just 18. I have the ability to ask them to show me how they looked, both younger and older. If you would only recognize your Grammie as an older lady, that is how she would appear to me.

That being said, in heaven, we have no physical bodies. Until recently, I didn’t quite know what that would look like — until the night before one of my events when a spirit showed me they were lining up and getting ready for the show the next day. I am sure they were letting me know, “no worries — we are ready.” I was able to see the pure energy and light, shaped with the outline of our bodies, lining up one by one. It was amazing and so beautiful to watch!

When I am privy to seeing into heaven, I see your loved ones looking very much the same — dressed as they did here, wearing glasses if they did, and enjoying what they loved to do here on Earth. I see them at dinners and gatherings, enjoying each other’s company.

I do tell my clients, “If you like Dunkin Donuts enjoy your coffee and donut now,” because I never see a spirit actually eating or drinking in heaven. They don’t physically need to do that anymore. Someone coming through that had a sweet tooth while here on Earth might show me a birthday cake if a celebration of a birthday is near, telling me to tell you to “have a piece for me.” They will be celebrating right alongside you.

Bonnie Page is a psychic medium, spiritual counselor, minister, and reiki master. She is the owner of Mystical Magical Marketplace and Messages from Heaven, located in Winchendon. Bonnie is available for private sessions by calling her office at 978-297-9790.  For more information about Bonnie, visit her website If you would like to ask Bonnie a question for her column, email